Life is so uncertain. One month
back none of us would have even in our wildest imaginations would have believed
we are, where we are today. We can never predict how the world changes, whether for what appears to be good or bad.
How does this understanding help
us? Firstly if we just look back into our life, many of our problems have come
due to certainty about something. We were certain that the share we have invested
in will double in the next year, we were certain the person we were lending
money to will return the money on time, or the person we were sharing our deepest
secrets would keep it confidential. But
unfortunately as we have all noticed, our certainty, has some times not played
out. The value of the share which we have invested in has fallen occasionally, some of the people we
have lent money to dont even pick up our calls.
Similarly many times we have negative certainty about a situations.
We might believe that the worst might happen in the current situation, infections might increase etc. But this also we have seen from past experience, has been proved wrong. When we have feared the worst might happen in the past, nothing of that sort has happened and life has moved pretty smoothly most of the rime.
The point being when we have a
feeling of certainty about any situation, We don’t even consider the
possibility that the situation could turn out other than what we have assumed we
don’t take the required precautions which we should take, which will protect us
from an adverse scenario.
Lets look at why this happens.
Why the most intelligent of us, assume that something is certain which in
retrospect sometimes looks foolish. This is because of the Mind. Our certainties and
uncertainties play out in the level of the mind.
The world is a complex place of
infinite possibilities. Every person is a complex person with many facets to
his nature, some of which we know, some which we don’t know. The Human mind however has a limited
processing power and can’t comprehend
this infinite and multi faceted possibilities.
To function normally in our day
to day life, each one of us has to make assumptions about the situations and the people we encounter. Based on these assumptions we deal with them. Since all of
us are intelligent people and the assumptions we have made are mostly realistic
assumptions life goes on more or less smoothly.
The problem comes when we don’t
realize we have made assumptions. We
thing that whatever we have thought of, is a certainty and things are certainly
the way we have decided. In this scenario if things turn out differently from
the way we have thought they would turn
out, it gives us a big shock and in extreme cases there are also the chances of
a mental breakdown based on the negative consequences of the assumption.
If we just realize that All of us
are living our life based on assumptions then
Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar says two things can happen Uncertainty can take us into
fear or We can rise in joy.
Many people know deep down that
life is uncertain . They try
to run away from this uncertainty by trying to create a sense of
security by acquiring material possessions, financial assets or through
relationships. All the 3 are good and required for a smooth and comfortable
life but there could still be a lingering sense of unease due to the uncertainty of life.
With wisdom, Uncertainty becomes a Glorious escape from the prison of our limited perceptions which have always restricted us. Our assumptions have stopped us from attaining our full potential. Life becomes a wonder garden of unlimited possibilities, when we drop all assumptions of how people and situations should be. We will reduce being judgemental and critical of our self and other people and can truly accept our self and the world and be at peace
The Wisdom of the Ancient sages and the Practice of the techniques of Yoga and Meditation which they have given, have helped many people to rise in Joy rather than fall in Fear in the face of Uncertainty.
Particularly during this time of
Lockdown when the feeling of Uncertainty in the external world is so obvious,
we can use this time to do Swadhyaya or Self analysis. We can look at our
deepest assumptions about our self and others and decide which are the assumptions
and beliefs that are empowering us and making us and our relationships stronger and
which are the ones making us weaker.
What do we really want in life ? What is our deepest purpose in life ? These are some of the questions we can ask our self. The world post the lock down will be a new world and if we also change our outlook and assumptions, we will come out of this stronger and refreshed . We will be best equipped to be successful and happy in the days to come.
What do we really want in life ? What is our deepest purpose in life ? These are some of the questions we can ask our self. The world post the lock down will be a new world and if we also change our outlook and assumptions, we will come out of this stronger and refreshed . We will be best equipped to be successful and happy in the days to come.